1. As the lord bless you so also you must impact lives and sow unto the kingdom of God.(the bible says" let the children come unto me for they are the kingdom or God. Simply put the kids represent the kingdom of God,the needy) It's the responsibility given to you in other to experience your marital breakthrough before/after it manifestation,and to live up to both your glory & marital glory.
2. I see shame all over this one, maritally and otherwise.
If nothing is done asap, or this person doesn't seek the lord, go for deliverance shame/disgrace will overshadow every area of her life so much that even are neighbour enemy will pity her/him.
Bless u