1. Indeed, you are right. As I see a evil norm in this family.
But the lord say, you are yet to be free from that norm,inherited marital shame.
You shall embark on serious night vigil and prayers with anger in your spirit-do this when you feel you are truly ready you should fast as well.
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Confessions: Matthew 7:24, Psalm 11:3, Daniel 11:32
Scripture reading: Ecclesiastes 3:10-14, Matthew 19:5, 31:10, Ecclesiastes 4:9, 11-12, Deuteronomy 32:30
Prayer points
1. O Lord, send your fire into the foundation of my life, to consume every evil carryover from my ancestors that will disgrace my marital life in the name of Jesus.
2. I will not follow any evil family pattern in my marriage in the name of Jesus.
3. Every evil spiritual engagement, dowry, and wedding conducted on my behalf, be dissolved by the blood of Jesus.
4. I speak destruction to the root of oppression and affliction in my marital journey in the name of Jesus.
5. Poverty of the spirit, soul, and body in my foundation be shattered to pieces in the name of Jesus.
6. Ancestral spirit wife/Husband militating against my physical marriage, be arrested in the name of Jesus.
7. Any power, spirit, demons, wickedness of the wicked that says that I will not settle down in marriage, die by fire in the name of Jesus.
8. Every evil authority over my marital life be scattered in the Name of Jesus.
9. I break every curse and covenant of loneliness by the blood of Jesus.
10. I destroy the power of barrenness in marriage by the power of the Holy Ghost, in Jesus name.
11. You my divine partner anywhere you are manifest and locate me by fire, in Jesus name.
12. Thou power that kills husband/wife at the early stage of marriage I am not your candidate, fall down and die, in the name of Jesus.
13. Anointing of excellence to do the impossible fall upon my life now in the name of Jesus.
14. Thou power of error in choosing the right partner be disgraced in the name of Jesus.
15. Holy Spirit, open my eyes to my divine opportunities, in the name of Jesus.
16. Whether the devil likes it or not my marriage shall be like heaven on earth in the name of Jesus.
17. O Lord, give me wonderful children that will glorify your name in my family, in the name of Jesus.
18. Every abnormality and disorderliness in my family, you will not prosper in my own marriage, in the name of Jesus.
19. You the strongman in charge of marital failure in my family be exposed and disgraced, and die by fire, in the name of Jesus.
20. Holy Ghost anointing break every yoke of failure attached to my marital destiny in the name of Jesus.
2. It's called " inherited poverty ".
The lord say, this side of you family[too] has a norm of inherited struggle, poverty and limitation but as for you,in this case? You've been set free.
Bless u