1. The lord asked/said:
Would you rather, be impatient and marry a man such like that? Marry for the sake of it and knowing that the marriage won't end up, even from the very day of your wedding?
The insulting man could be referred to as, abusive marriage. Would u rather, because many want to marry' live in fear under marriage, with an abusive man? Well, the lord said, if you do. I shall provide you a man who's ready for marriage now but abusive in nature.
2. Mark 11:23
For verily I say unto you, That whosoever shall say unto this mountain, Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things which he saith shall come to pass; he shall have whatsoever he saith.
In essence, the lord said, in him you can do all thing, if you belief''.
3. Be quick to listen, slow to speak.
Lies on the tongue, the power of life and death.
Watch you tongue and what goes out of you mouth, guide you mouth and be on your guard so that you won't use your hand/tongue to destroy what the lord has blessed you with. I.e relationship,blessing....
Bless u