The best way to overcome is? Stop struggling with it, stop fighting it and stop trying to trust people or get along with those person's out force. Let it come naturally. Naturally, through the word of God, by trust God to help you, by finding strength in his word,by learning from your past mistakes and admitting that you were foolish and spiritually blind. For it is written :
◄ Jeremiah 17:5 ►
This is what the LORD says: "Cursed is the one who trusts in man, who draws strength from mere flesh and whose heart turns away from the LORD.
◄ Psalm 146:3 ►
Do not put your trust in princes, in human beings, who cannot save.
Above all,appreciate GOD for another opportunity to learn through pain,hurt, betrayal,your mistake. To grow through it and develop yourself better for another opportunity. For, the best way to really be a winner is to accept that in every situation, good or Bad? There is a huge opportunity and something valuable to take from it,grow to it and develop yourself for greater things to come.
Now, find solace in this :
◄ Isaiah 40:30-31 ►
Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall;
but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
You fell, but know this? You will not only rise again(as the lord assured his children and those who trust in him) but stronger, wiser and better you'll become.
Halleluyahiiii
Bless u