It's nothing to be confuse about.
You can't because of what happened, what is happening let down your guard or cease asking God to restore everything back and to destroy every stagnancy holding down your progress.
For the lord say, seek and ye shall find,knock I shall open. It's called authorisation, power to seek and find.
To your dream(s) now:
1- The lord said you let down guide and or unconsciously let down you guide.
The hot water, the washing machine and excessive clothes means: over due or error hence, and the moment you pour away the hot water u found yourself eating/tasting that meat.
Which signifies an infliction of witchcraft influence.
Indeed, you won't be be only one affected by this attack/stagnancy, as many, including your mum's unconsciously let down your spirit guard.
You must pray and ask the lord to restore back what your spiritual guard. Could this be sin? That I don't know, u want to find out? Go ahead. But pray the lord to restore back your spiritual consciousness/guard. No wonder,both son and mother were struggling to get the car working.
2- its called act of shame. The lord is just exposing what's hiding before men to you.
It's called shame,disgrace, unholy,detestable ,irritating act before God and man.
Obviously this person engages in shameful,detestable act, such that when u get to see with your eyes u will wonder If she's a being
What i'm seeing here is LEBIANISM''
3- This dream is a symbol of one who's making progress and success it was all the way but all of a sudden let down his/her guard and sudden, everything began to go down.
Disappoinment,stagancy,delay etc manifests.
The lord is talking to you. As the the word man word(spiritually) signifies: sin,weakness,stain,embargo etc on you progress/success.
Thank you jesus!
Bless u