[seekinghim1]

Thank you very much for helping me interpret my last dream - it does make sense to me and confirms a lot of the issues Ive faced in regards to my fears.  I had this dream in the last two weeks and hope you can help me understand it;


In this dream I am driving in my car with the same ex colleagues current partner, but in this dream they are not together.  The man sits in the passenger seat and the mood is peaceful and content.  I am asking him questions about his life and he is happily answering these questions.  I then am at home and my mother is present.  it seems she disapproves of this relationship but in the dream I am realising that I can make my own decisions and that I am old enough to do that.  In the dream I remember feeling a bit bothered that this man was in a relationship with my ex colleague first but Im not overly bothered.  It seems I want to hide this relationship and not really flaunt it.  But then we are parked in front of a big gym where there is a big window and people in the gym can see us clearly as we can see them.  I notice a very good friend running on the treadmill looking out at us and I know she can see me.  I also notice my mother staring out at us behind my friend with a disapproving look.
We are then in a big shoe store and the man gets told off by a woman for something.  He then comes to me and I tell him "he can buy what he wants' (meaning its his choice) the man buys a cd which has red in the middle.  He brings it to me and we listen to music together in the car.  The man says "he doesn't care as long as he can be around me"

Upon waking I had no bad feelings about this dream but I was very surprised that the man was this same ex colleagues current partner - in real life I have no attraction or desire for him and hardly know him so I felt he could be symbolic.  My good friend on the treadmill is someone I have a very good friendship with - we have been through so many things together.  My mother is a strong Christian but sometimes tries to make decisions for me making me feel a bit frustrated.
I don't know whether this dream is prophetic or literal - the characters in the dream took me by surprise and as I mentioned before I am single and not involved with anyone as I do believe the lord will provide the right person for me.

Thank you

[ebankole]

You've said it all.

Indeed, you are such a liberal and independent person.
But the lord asked, why do you bother yourself often after what people says or think about your life so much that it's become a routine thing in your life?

Could this be fear, intimidation, shyness or what?
Truly, you seem to know what you want, your choice, what you want but this fear hasn't been fair to you.


Why have you been denying yourself what makes your happy, your choice just because of what people around you (will)say?

It's called " within and without fear or intimidation.

Stop confining your self, stop bothering yourself about what people says or think about your decision especially you mother, and these around you.


What a mighty jesus.

Lastly, you are quite liberal and independent and this will/has helped you a lot in making the right decisions but these fears, intimidation etc limited your marital open heavens - as this trait would have fetch your man for you but these fear/intimidation wouldn't let you be.




Prayer points :


Oh lord my God, give me the wisdom, courage to overcome every intimidation and fears against my marital manifestion.



Oh lord arise and give me the spirit of fearlessness to stand by my decision.



Every domestic, inherited, without,within fear that's limiting my marital heavens be expose, dispose, come out of me and die.


Psalm 119.



Bless u

[seekinghim1]

You've said it all.

Indeed, you are such a liberal and independent person.
But the lord asked, why do you bother yourself often after what people says or think about your life so much that it's become a routine thing in your life?

Could this be fear, intimidation, shyness or what?
Truly, you seem to know what you want, your choice, what you want but this fear hasn't been fair to you.


Why have you been denying yourself what makes your happy, your choice just because of what people around you (will)say?

It's called " within and without fear or intimidation.

Stop confining your self, stop bothering yourself about what people says or think about your decision especially you mother, and these around you.


What a mighty jesus.

Lastly, you are quite liberal and independent and this will/has helped you a lot in making the right decisions but these fears, intimidation etc limited your marital open heavens - as this trait would have fetch your man for you but these fear/intimidation wouldn't let you be.




Prayer points :


Oh lord my God, give me the wisdom, courage to overcome every intimidation and fears against my marital manifestion.



Oh lord arise and give me the spirit of fearlessness to stand by my decision.



Every domestic, inherited, without,within fear that's limiting my marital heavens be expose, dispose, come out of me and die.


Psalm 119.



Bless u

Thank you kindly - yes I had a impression that this dream pointed to me being able to make my own choices - I am wondering why certain things appeared in the dream though - such as parked by a gym, my good friend on a treadmill and the symbolism of my ex colleagues current partner as in real life that is not something I desire.